I will be the first to admit that I do put girls on a blacklist and it is not because they don't dance well or are to cocky. It's mainly due to them being a heavy follower. Don't get me wrong, you do not have to be overweight to be a heavy follower. I have danced with some overweight women who move beautifully and are very sensitive my lead. However I have also danced with some very light weight women who make me feel like I have to throw them across to do a cross body lead. Salsa is suppose to be about lead and follow along with trusting your partner and communicating well with eachother. Not to workout my arms.
Jun 07, 2008 Rating
Not ready to put girls on the blacklist yet by: Anonymous
I'm a lead beginner and I had girls shun me off because I wasn't good enough yet. This has only fueled my desire to be the best so I welcome the rejection. I don't think I'm in a position to put anyone in the blacklist though. I just need to keep dancing with whomever will dance with me so I can get better.
