The Male always will be the one that leads on the dance floor, it doesn’t matter if you’re dancing with a Beginner or if you’re dancing with your Dance instructor. Males keep in mind that the Female is the one making you look good on the dance floor, so instead of getting disappointed with a girl that can barely dance, take some time and teach her how. In my own opinion, that’s what makes good dancers.

I know what you mean, I get into this situation a lot because I keep asking the hot girls to dance (just because they’re hot, doesn’t mean they can dance!). My salsa instructor says that instead of doing complicated patterns, I need to make the dance more interesting by adding my own body movement and styling. I’ve also been practicing how to spin, so that eventually I can off load some of the spins onto myself instead.

But basically, until I become a better leader, I’ve been trying to avoid dancing with beginners, because it’s not fun for me and I’m sure it’s not fun for them too. If I can someday learn to style like this guy “http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F88ZZ0GK2s8”, then maybe it’ll be fun for both of us, but I’m not there yet.